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The Quick Trip to Town That Wasn't Quick at All

Yesterday I made a classic mistake. I said the words every small-town person eventually regrets: “I’m just running to town real quick.” Now if you live in a big city, a quick trip to town probably means you go to the store, get what you need, and come home. But in a small town, that’s not how it works. A trip to town is not an errand. It is an event. It started out simple enough. I needed one thing. Just one. I told myself I’d be in and out in fifteen minutes. Fifteen minutes later I was still in the parking lot. Because the first thing that happened was I saw someone I knew. Now in a small town you don’t just wave and keep walking. That would be rude. So we stopped and talked for a minute, which naturally turned into ten minutes. We covered everyone’s health, the weather, someone’s garden, and whether the rain last week was good for the hay. Then I finally made it inside the store. That’s when I ran into someone else I knew. This conversation began with, “How have you been?” and someh...
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A Simple Weekly Wish List

 Some weeks call for a long list of things to do. Other weeks feel like they need something different-- something a little softer than a schedule full of tasks and expectations. This week, instead of focusing on everything that has  to get done, I'm keeping a simple wish list. Not goals. Not deadlines. Just a few small things I'm hoping to make space for in the days ahead. A Quiet Morning. I'm hoping for at least one morning this week that isn't rushed. The kind of morning where the house is still, and the day hasn't started pulling in a dozen different directions yet. Just a few quiet minutes to think, pray, and ease into the day. Time Outside.  Even if it's just a short walk or a few minutes standing in the yard, I'd like to spend a little time outside this week. Fresh air has a way of clearing your mind and reminding you that the world is bigger than whatever is crowding your thoughts. A Good Conversation. Life moves quickly, and sometimes conversations g...

Weekend Recap

Happy Monday again, friends! It seems like Monday comes around too quickly. We tried to not let the rain bring our weekend down.  Sweet Wrenley was named star student in her class and was recognized in front of the school at chapel. Such a sweetheart She is growing up so much. It makes me both happy and sad. Look at sweet baby Wesley! He is growing too!! Wrenley said he was sticking his tongue out at her :) I was finally able to get my hands on the lime slush Alani Nu. I've heard several people talk about how disappointed they were in the taste (they say it isn't sour enough). It tastes just like Lucky Charm marshmallows! I think it is delicious. We were also able to celebrate my nephew, Noah's birthday with him (a little late) My Dad ran another race. In the rain. It was a 5k Pound the Pavement for cancer. He is a cancer survivor. We are so thankful that God has given us more time with him. And his running time wasn't bad either: 29:58...in the rain. I couldn't eve...

Things I've Changed My Mind About

 There's something humbling about changing your mind. When you're younger, you think changing your mind means you were wrong. Now I think it means you've grown. I used to believe strength looked like holding firm to every opinion, every plan, every expectation. But strength, I've learned, sometimes looks like loosening your grip. Here are a few things I changed my mind about: Being busy means being productive . I used to wear busy like a badge. Full calendar. Full schedule. Full exhaustion. Now I know busy and fruitful are not the same thing. Some of my most meaningful days look slow and simple. Saying yes make you kind. I thought the good women were the ones who always showed up, always volunteered, always helped. I've learned that saying no can be just as loving--especially when it protects your peace and your family. Rest is lazy . I don't believe that anymore. Rest is stewardship. Rest is wisdom. Sometimes rest is obedience. Everyone has to understand me. ...

Homemade Ranch Dressing

 Homemade ranch dressing always tastes fresh, creamy, and easy to customize with your favorite herbs. This recipe proves that you can make restaurant-quality ranch at home. Always perfectly tangy. It is perfect for dipping, cooking, salad, and more! Just a few simple ingredients! It really is so super easy to put together. Ingredients  1/2 cup mayonnaise 1/2 cup sour cream 1 tsp. onion powder (NOT ONION SALT) 1/2 tsp. garlic powder (NOT GARLIC SALT) 1 tsp. parsley (dried) 1/2 tsp. basil (dried) 1/2 tsp. dill (dried) 3/4 tsp. salt 1/2 tsp. pepper 1/4 cup milk (amount will vary depending on desired consistency) Instructions Whisk all ingredients together, except the milk. Pour in enough milk to make the dressing the consistency you like. Taste and adjust salt and pepper to your preference. This recipe can be used as a great base, and then you can add more seasonings as you want. But don't take my word for it. Try it out and let me know what you think! Hope you enjoy! Much Love, ...

Weekend Recap: Family Edition

 Happy Monday, friends! I'm finally back after taking a mental health week! Sometimes you just need a little refresher. And now I am back with fresh ideas and a better understanding of how to move forward. Last Wednesday night I received a phone call from my sweet granddaughter. "BeBe, my want you to pick me up in the morning." I told her that I would pick her up after school like I always do on Thursdays. "No, my want you to pick me up in the morning." I knew exactly what that meant. She didn't want to go to school! I talked with her mom, and she said she could come stay with me if I wanted to pick her up first thing. I mean, how in the world could anyone say no to that?! So I kept her and we had the best day. Hanging out and playing.  We started our morning off with McDonald's! We visited Nanny. This was her bossy face. I am against child labor, I promise. She asked to help wash dishes. She mostly just played in the water! I didn't get a picture, b...

Youth Ministry Part 4: Finding & Keeping Volunteers

 In every small church, especially those of us tucked between cornfields and county roads, youth ministry doesn't run on a big budget or flashy lights. It runs on faithful people. And if you've ever tried to recruit volunteers for youth ministry, you know-- it can feel harder than planning the lesson itself. But here is the truth: God has already placed the right people in your church. Sometimes they just need an invitation.. and reassurance. Start with the why . Before you ask someone to serve, remind them why it matters. Youth ministry isn't babysitting. It's discipleship. When adults consistently show up for youth (especially in the teenage age group), they are living out the call of Matthew 28:19-20-- to go and make disciples. They are becoming steady voices in a world that is loud and confusing. Youth don't need perfect leaders. They need present ones. Personally Invite-- Don't Publicly Beg.   General announcements from the pulpit rarely build a team. A pe...