The Bright Eyed Brunette

 I like to think of myself as a person who generally isn't easy to offend. Lately, though, I've found myself getting more and more offended than ever before! In the times we're living in, everyone is on edge. And if you're like me, maybe you've been getting more offended than ever before too. When I think about what's happening in the world, there's more division than ever! You can feel anger and animosity in the atmosphere. If there's anything the enemy would love right now is for believers to turn on one another because of hurt or offense. The enemy may be working hard to create division in our relationships, but if we can learn to overcome the spirit of offense, we can forge stronger, healthier relationships in all areas of our lives. So what exactly is offense? Offense is anger, resentment, irritation, exasperation, annoyance, animosity...Need I say more? A spirit of offense is feeling resentment because of an actual or perceived insult. Sometimes of...

 It's hard to believe that my baby is twenty! It seems like yesterday that I went to the hospital to have him. I was confident in my abilities; after all, I had already given birth to two perfect babies. They started me on Pitocin, I got my epidural, and I was comfortable. I knew my girls were being taken care of by my mother and grandmother, and I had Carl by my side, ready to see his son.  The nurses assured our families that they had time to go eat lunch. They had been gone about 15 minutes when I knew it was time to push. The nurses got everything ready and called the doctor. Three big pushes and our little boy was earthside. Then everything was quiet. No cries. I saw the nurses working on him, trying to get him to breathe. That was one of the scariest times of my life. He was completely blue, and it seemed like an eternity before he was finally able to take a breath. Finally, he started crying, and by that time, I was too! They handed him to me and remember Carl saying th...

 Happy Monday, friends! Hope you all had a great weekend. Things were pretty good here on the homestead!  Harvest on the Arkansas Grand Prairie Trey was being a good uncle, taking Wrenley for a Ranger ride. Silly girl at church :) Makena and I went to watch The Conjuring 4.  It was so good! Carl and I went to the new houseboat We have such big plans for this little space! He is my BFF! We were able to recharge and are ready for the week ahead! Much Love, Beth

 Life has a way of surprising us--sometimes with joy, other times with challenges we never saw coming. The truth is, none of us knows what tomorrow holds, and at times, that uncertainty can feel heavy. But in the middle of the unknown, there is one thing we can choose: hope. Hope isn't just wishful thinking. When the future feels shaky, hope can sound like a fragile word. But biblical hope is not about crossing our fingers and wishing for the best--it's about anchoring ourselves in the promises of God. Hebrews 6:19 calls hope "an anchor for the soul, firm and secure".  Even when life feels stormy, that anchor keeps us steady. Right now, many farmers are feeling the weight of uncertainty. Lack of profit, export difficulties, and rising costs, have left some wondering how they'll make it. For families who depend on the land, each day brings new worries--will there be enough money to keep going? While there is such concern, in the midst of the struggle, there are sto...

 Happy Hump Day, friends! I want to share one of my favorite recipes. If your family loves taco night, wait until you try this cozy twist--Taco Soup! It's everything you love about tacos (bold flavors, customizable toppings, and kid-approved goodness) but in a hearty, one pot meal that's ready in under 30 minutes. This recipe is perfect for busy weeknights, chilly evenings, or even when you're hosting friends and need something simple but crowd-pleasing. Bonus: it makes great leftovers, which means tomorrow's lunch is already taken care of! Ingredients 1 lb ground beef or ground turkey 1 small onion, diced 1 can corn, drained 1 can black beans, rinsed and drained 1 can kidney beans, rinsed and drained 1 can Rotel 1 packet taco seasoning (or homemade) 1 packet ranch seasoning  2-3 cups chicken or beef broth (depending on how thick you like your soup) Instructions In a large pot, brown the ground beef/turkey with the diced onion. Drain any excess grease . Add in the corn,...

 Let's be honest: making friends as an adult can feel harder than parallel parking on a busy street. You're busy. They're busy. Everyone's juggling jobs, families, and about 47 different responsibilities. Suddenly, friendships feel less like "let's hang out" and more like scheduling a doctor's appointment three months in advance.  But here's the thing: God never meant for us to live isolated. He designed us for community. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 27:17, "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." Translation? We need people who encourage us, challenge us, and walk with us in faith. So why does it feel so awkward? Because friendship in adulthood doesn't just "happen" anymore. It takes intentionality. It means putting yourself out there, and when it feels uncomfortable. It means being brave enough to say, "Hey, want to grab coffee?"-even if it feels like you're asking someone out on a date :) H...