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Red Flags: Guarding Our Hearts & Our Churches

 Scripture tells us that shepherds are entrusted with God's flock, no for selfish gain but "being examples to the flock" (1 Peter 5:3). A pastor's calling is a holy one, rooted in humility, sacrifice, and love. But Jesus also warned that not every shepherd has pure intentions--some are "wolves in sheep's clothing" (Matthew 7:15).  As believers, we must stay discerning. Here are some red flags to watch out for in pastors:


1.  Special Treatment for Certain Families James warns against showing partiality (James 2:1-4), yet some pastors cater to certain families, wealthy donors, or influential members while neglecting the rest of the body. Christ doesn't play favorites--every soul in the church matters equally to Him. A true shepherd cares for the unnoticed as much as the well-known.

2. Neglecting the Brokenhearted Jesus came to heal the brokenhearted (Luke 4:18), but a pastor who avoids the messy, hurting, or less "influential" people in the church is missing the heart of the Gospel. Shepherds are called to walk alongside the weak, not the strong.

3. Preaching for Applause, Not Conviction When sermons seem tailored to keep the "important" people happy rather than challenge the whole body with truth, that's a warning sign. God's Word must be preached boldly and faithfully--not watered down to protect comfort or position.

 4. Seeking Honor Instead of Humility Jesus washed His disciples' feet as an example of servant leadership (John 13:14-15). A pastor who demands recognition or constant admiration reveals a heart chasing man's praise rather than God's approval.

 5. Avoiding Accountability Proverbs 27:17 reminds us that "iron sharpens iron." Pastors who resist correction or surround themselves only with people who share their views are in dangerous territory. True shepherds welcome accountability, knowing it protects both themselves and the flock.

 A Heart Check for the Church

 The church belongs to Christ--not to any one man or leader. When pastors cater to a select few, neglect the hurting, or seek to please people rather than God, the whole body suffers. But when a pastor humbly serves, loves without favoritism, and faithfully preaches the truth, the church flourishes as God intended.

Let's pray for our pastors, that they would lead with Christlike love, and let's stay watchful as a congregation. If you notice red flags, don't ignore them--pray, seek wisdom, and remember that Christ Himself is our ultimate Shepherd. 



"The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want." (Pslam 23:1)

Much Love,

Beth 

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